I don't think I can.
So I will study after her show.
Once I am sure I got the bird in the cage, then I can relax a bit. Now is still reinforcing the belief.
I decided to give you your portion of the money when you come over to Malaysia. The more reason you got to have a bank account either with Citibank o[f] (or) Bank of America.
I will forward you the airplane ticket fee for you to fly down.
BOA is not a consumer bank:
Bank of America Malaysia Berhad 199401025304 (310983-V) is a commercial bank that is licensed to provide working capital, cash management, trade finance services, fixed income and foreign exchange trading and leasing and funding services to corporate clients and financial institutions
Citibank is a consumer bank and it has credit/debit card. I think it is a better option.
Anyway, I want the transaction to be in Malaysia. I don't want to wire the check to your bank. Reason being I want you to cash the check in Malaysia. Psychologically it is in Malaysian currency and perceived as four times bigger.
Also because I want to see you. So you have no choice but to be present here.
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At this point all these are just statements of direction. There are milestones for us to achieve.
My hunch says that Els appreciates the gesture but she will not take it.
Another option is for the three of us to get married in Songkhla, Thailand. Very simple.
All you need to do is able to pronounce Ashhadu Alla illah ha illallah Muhammadu Rasullullah.
Then *[the] they issue you the Newly Convert Card. Right away we can marry.
http://www.nikahsiam-kahwinthailand.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQjwpNr4BRDYARIsAADIx9xCKm9h-HbE86FsJ_igPOU_Gm2l7mqdEwDSLWnq1xZl1xqE1Pzk6xkaAt3OEALw_wcB
When we come back to Malaysia, we need to be present in the Syaria Court and pay fine of RM3,000. That will take time.
* OK we do it this way. Very easy. No need to attend wedding class and Islamic Foundation class.
As for our livelihood, you can be like me and conduct training. Or you can do technical work. That is not a big thing. We have Pal as our patron. That's the reason we must support him now. He is a Cash Cow.
Let's not complicate things. Of course as your husband I want the best for you. That is why I was thinking about the Money Tree. Since we cannot have that, then we Ikigai, we continue working and never retire.
It's not that bad. By then we have some money. So we may even start an online business. As long as you are willing to uproot, then anywhere you can earn a living.
Remember, Pal is starting his Wellness Foundation. We can ride on that too.
Honey, Malaysia is a goldmine. In my case, I have a Cash Cow. So from there on for the next 10 years I start on accumulating my next reserve.
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We maintain low profile. We live below our means and we don't lavish.
My friend Harry who is a Double Income No Kid (DINK) owns 2 BMWs, 1 SUV and 3 properties. Between the 3 of us, we don't need that. We have 1 condo and another Myvi. That's all. Els can manage without a car. So I think that should reflect our attitude towards materialism.
As far as tourism is concerned we have Thailand and Indonesia. As I recalled, you are not into traveling. So let Els and the family travel. We just enjoy the 10 km radius and KL. I want to enjoy being with you.
As long as we don't have kids we are OK. Kids are heavy responsibilities. After all you got Els. You can take care of each other when I am not around. Furthermore, if my children have kids, their kids will be your kids. Even they are not interested in having kids.
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The real challenge is to ensure financial independence. I can lavish and live my life by buying things more and more expensive. However I am thinking beyond. I want to create a compelling future with you and Els. Then again it is your personal choice.
I am a very flexible person. I am not stuck to a preset paradigm. First I make the money. Once I have the money, that is the first choice.
Then for us to be legally married. Another choice.
Then to decide whether we stay together. Another choice.
Finally to Ikigai. To me this is to prepare for the next 10 years. For you it is for the next 20 years.
Once you decide to go Ikigai, we are talking about you accumulating your nest egg.
If you want to go along the professional service line, then we latch on Pal. That means sharpens your presentation skill and your subject matter knowledge.
If you want to go through the technical line, then learn about the Gig Economy and basic stuff about online marketing and online technology like designing a website etc.
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Notice, I am already thinking of the future. We have to already start planning our lives like husband and wife.
OK let's update Els.
This 21/7/20 [] (email) was missing from the sent list
Dear Els,
While listening to you, Sarah and I were planning for our compelling future.
Here is the decision. When the time comes I *wi[th] (will) give both of you your dowries. Sarah will come down to Malaysia.
* Yes, she will get her apportionment as well.
Here is the deal and I am giving you the same option: We will go to Songkhla, Thailand and get married. It is a very simple process. No need to attend marriage and Islamic foundation classes.
All you need to do is be able to pronounce Ashhadu Alla illah ha illallah Waashahadu anna Muhammadu Rasullullah. Straight away they issue you a newly convert card and marry us.
http://www.nikahsiam-kahwinthailand.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQjwpNr4BRDYARIsAADIx9xCKm9h-HbE86FsJ_igPOU_Gm2l7mqdEwDSLWnq1xZl1xqE1Pzk6xkaAt3OEALw_wcB
Then we are legally married.
Upon coming back to Malaysia, we then seek the audience with the Syaria Court and pay RM3,000 fine per marriage because they were done outside the country. The Syaria Court [t]will (will) then convert the marriage certificate to Malaysian's certificate. No need to remarry.
* I know, that's a relief to me too.
From there on, you can choose to go back to where you are or start a new life with the two of us.
Either that or I'll give you your dowry without any commitment for us to get legally married.
I leave it up to you.
I even offered for Sarah to stay in Malaysia if she wants to and I can help her build a career in training, technical or online business. Same thing with you should you decide to follow this path.
I suggested that we have no kids. I am more interested in building a financial nest egg for us to sustain the following 10 years. None of my kids want to have kids either. So you and Sarah got each other along with Puteri Balqis and Puteri Sarah to see you though when I am gone.
I know it's a wild idea but it can be done. I am sharing this with you because Sarah is agreeable to the idea.
Don't worry, I'm not saying it has to be done this way but this is a plausible option. After the marriage we take a short honeymoon together in Thailand or Langkawi. I let you decide.
That's pretty much what transpired.
Love you hon.
Sine cera,
SJ
21/7/20
#traxxfm While listening to you, Sarah and I were engaged in an uncommon discussion. It is in your email. Later hon...
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