>>>#16/8/20 One of those sleepless nights

Honey,

This was my conversation with Sarah 2 nights ago.  You are outnumbered by the introverts  LOL.

I think I'll write about Lizzie tonight.

I'm not going to organize my thoughts.  I'll write whatever comes to mind.

My wife is actually a gift from heaven.  Super efficient in what she does.  She is not human.  I consider her an android.  So structured and very organized.

Lizzie is a classic Sentinel.  She is no-nonsense.  A very rigid personality.  That is why she still drives a manual car.  Very set with her thinking.  Until now, she doesn't own an ATM card.  She doesn't believe in online banking.  If she is a car, she is the Ford Lynx TX3 all the way to the end.  I bought her the car when she was 33.

Unfortunately, the car was a lemon after 23 years.  If not she will be using the same car until she retires.

A strict disciplinarian with the kids, Lizzie's word is law in the house.  Very principle-centered.  She doesn't compromise on her values.  A very dedicated worker.

I don't deserve her Sarah.  She is the Gibraltar Rock.  Very steadfast and a strong character.  If we are geometry diagrams, she is a square while I am a triangle.  It takes 2 triangles to make a square.

The best decision I made in my life is to marry her.  The second best decision is to buy the house.  The third best decision is for us to have the 2 kids.

When I marry her, she is a novice in the kitchen.  Now she is a grandmaster.

Being a tough cookie, she hardly expresses her emotions.  Ironically, Lizzie has a heart of gold.  It's just that she shows her affection through her dedication towards the family and her students.

I don't quite get her.  She is not cold.  And yet she is not warm either.  She is a teacher through and through.  Most of the time she is a strict person.  Very logical and very firm.

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Those are her strong points.  Her weak point is she is inflexible once she makes up her mind.

She is not a performer in bed either.

She can be overly critical.

She nags (my fault usually).

And she is a mother more than a wife.

She is a classic ISTJ.  Princess is more like her while Mopey is more like me.  It is interesting to note that all of them are no-nonsense.  The least rigid is Mopey.  Lizzie and Princess are Iron Ladies.  Much like the military when comes to precision. 

In a way, I like my women tough.  I cannot stand the spineless type.  That why I like Els too.  She is an independent woman.

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So you are an ISFJ, right?  I never met a person as loyal as you.

Hmmm... You are a shy type.  Interesting...

So let me get this right, you actually are a no-nonsense type too.

Wow, I learn so much about you tonight.  You are indeed an angel.

No wonder you want to consummate the marriage.  You go by the book.

OK baby, let set the record straight.  We'll make Songkhla 2030 happen.  As much as possible I will not let you down.

Honey, I love you very much.

Let me get this right:

1. I am INFJ
2. Lizzie ISTJ
3. Sarah ISFJ
4. Els ESFP
5. Princess ISTJ
6. Mopey INTJ

How about that?

The furthest away is Els.

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