Hi honey,
Welcome to Day 1 of the 45 Days Happiness Pathway Creation. Already I am building one strand of the pathway one day at a time. I watched your vlog on what you ate for the week. Boy, you ate like a truck driver LMAO. If I eat as you eat, I bet I will balloon like nobody's business.
It's not that I am going to eat what you are eating. Definitely not. What I did was I am doing some deep learning about your preferences as if you are a Cybernetic Organism.
Hey, remember when you learn NLP? It is looking at the brain as if it is a computer. Well turned out our brain is a neural net and as much the machines are learning from us (refer to Darwin Among the Machines by George Dyson) we are learning from them as well.
So the keyword I want to stress here for the next 45 days is the ability to LEARN from each other. I can for example take this next 45 days as a linear growth and treat you like I normally treat you. Or, I can look at [] (what) you are doing and use exponential growth to learn from it. The difference is with linear growth I will develop incrementally while on exponential growth I will develop on a quantum leap.
Honey, baby, the love of my life... You may wonder, why do I find you so irresistible? Where is the hook? Well, I must say that your greatest strength is you have a growth mindset as opposed to a fixed mindset. Every day I'm with you is an adventure in the making. You got me functioning as a homo sapiens, the thinking man. To me, you are a marvel; like a china in my hand.
There are certain things I don't understand about you though. Like I don't understand why you want to scar your skin PERMANENTLY with atrocious tattoos. I mean, some of your tattoos are nice but there is one that makes you look like a mad sailor. What were you thinking when you decided to permanently scar your delicate skin with that (I am referring to the arrow tattoo).
So while I am watching you from far, I am actually assembling a mental model about you as a person. From the swatches I got about you, I assembled a representation of who you are implicitly and explicitly. I have to. I am so in love with you and you are my wife for eternity (as I am writing this, Lighthouse Family is singing High).
In short, your value lies in your ability to let me learn new experiences. Like the food experience for example. That's why I said you are the Trailblazer while Sarah is the Pacesetter. You are always ahead of everybody else when comes to revolutionary ideas.
Songkhla 2030 is a very long journey indeed if you are counting the days. Therefore I am not going to harp on the details. What I can say is, if you are committed to it, I'll make it happen. Look, don't worry so much about making the marriage official and everything. I just want to give you the dowry and your sustenance as my commitment to marrying you for eternity.
I don't expect you to consummate the marriage in the traditional way. As it is, I am happy listening to your playlists on Mondays and Thursdays. Marriage means different things to different people. This is the meaning of my marriage to you:
Aimer, ce n'est pas se regarder l'un l'autre, c'est regarder ensemble dans la même direction -Antoine de St-Exupéry.
So from now until early November, I will be focusing on the learning experience when I communicate with you.
I do hope you are committed to making this relationship a success. Otherwise, it is nothing more than clapping with one hand. Remember, it takes 45 days to build a new pathway but it only takes 18 days to break a bad addiction. Let's build on what we got.
I can't be with you on a daily basis nowadays. However, I make a point to be with you on Mondays and Thursdays. So if you want to say something to me, that will be these two days. I take your embedded commands and radio cryptics seriously. So don't lead me on a wild goose chase.
As we progress, my time affluence will decrease. That's because my time shrinks with the commitment I am taking. So you can talk cock and sing songs on other days but I appreciate you choreograph your activities when you are on air Mondays and Thursdays. That is especially true when comes to the sequencing of the songs.
As I told you, your value is the learning you provide. Although the communication is casual, I take the learning pretty seriously. That's because whatever learning I get from you will spill over to Sarah and my general audience. I cannot afford merely having small talks. Everything is cause-set-in-motion. So each little thing counts.
What can I say Els, I always love you. Now is to trust that you love me back so that I am certain with the direction I am heading.
I can only know within these next 45 days.
Take care, honey.
Sine Cera,
18/9/20
Honey, welcome to Day 1 of the 45 Days new pathway development. I decided to email you my thoughts. If time allows I'll be with you this evening. No promises youtube.com/watch?v=a7SouU Later baby...
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